Become a Motivational Speaker in 2009

January 12th, 2009

Become a Motivational Speaker

I want to introduce you to a speaker who, in his time, set a standard for presentations unapproached by his peers. Several years ago, while living in 

South London, I discovered the fascinating story of Charles Spurgeon, and, from the heart of his story, both the theme and title for this book.

I feel connected to this reverend for the following reasons:

• Our fathers were both Baptist preachers.  

• We both preached in London, England.

• On a personal note, we’ve both been described as portly, and have relished a fine cigar. 

The dynamic Charles Spurgeon was a minister in the Elephant and Castle district of South London in the latter nineteenth century. While researching this “man of the cloth,” I learned some disturbing statistics describing church attendance. During his lifetime, attendance was at an historical low in churches of all faiths throughout England. The average attendance ranged from between five and seven people per service, per church! The notable exception was the Metropolitan Tabernacle, the largest independent congregation in the world, where Spurgeon had a regular attendance of five to seven thousand every Sunday morning!

What really compelled me to study this man’s speaking skills was not just this astounding attendance. It was the appeal he made to his congregation on Sunday mornings at the end of his sermons. He would ask those in attendance to not return that evening so that others would have an opportunity to get in, who that morning had been turned away!

I’d never heard of a minister having to make that kind of announcement. What made Charles Spurgeon so popular? What about him appealed so powerfully to others? In my research, I uncovered an interview with Spurgeon that provided, with the brilliance of a few searing words, the answers I sought. When asked why so many people were coming to his church when other churches were nearly empty, Spurgeon’s response was:

I am on fire for God. And when I preach, people come to watch me burn. His words are worth repeating…”I am on fire for God. And when I preach, people come to watch me burn.”

Here we need to concentrate only on the fire, not the fuel. I don’t want you to be put off by the particulars of our good minister’s flame, nor distracted from the general truth of his message. Regardless of the source that fueled his fire, he WAS on fire, and people came to experience his heat, to watch him burn in his public speaking!

I’m sure that there were other ministers in Spurgeon’s time that were more learned and better scholars, but they lacked his speaking skills.

Spurgeon commanded an intense and authoritative passion during the presentation of his sermons, and this filled his church. (And though I can’t prove it, I feel certain that most of his congregation didn’t arrive early to fight for the pews at the back of the room.) Likewise, we need that passion in order to burn. If we have intensity in our presentations, it will show, and it will have that same kind of appeal and attraction. And there’s something I want you to keep in mind, something that I cannot emphasize enough:

The fire you want burning during your motivational speaking doesn’t start by accident.

It has to be carefully, methodically built, and every time in your motivational speaking career, people will be not only captivated, but also grateful, firewatchers.

If you’re still wondering just how important it is to add that extra element of passion in your motivational speaking, please allow me to offer you several striking examples—

I conducted a motivational speaker training for a Fortune 400 insurance company. I was in a meeting with one of the company executives who asked if I would be willing to help one of the managers (let’s call him John) with a presentation he was to do in seven days for senior executives. I said of course I’d be happy to do that, as long as John was willing. This executive went on to explain to me that this would be a very important presentation and that John was an excellent manager who probably deserved to be a director. It turned out that the only thing keeping John from being promoted was his lack of presentation skills. I was then told that if John did an exceptional job speaking, he would receive that promotion to director. And I was left with these final words: “Oh yeah, and you can’t tell him about this.”

So, the next day, I met with John. He already had the content that he was speaking on written because it was one he’d spoken on several times. To be honest, he didn’t seem that excited about it. I said to John, “Why don’t we really go after it this time and make this presentation better than it’s ever been?” “I know, John, but for this Monday night, why don’t we go for it? Let’s put in some good humor, create a very captivating introduction, and initiate a call to action?”

“I don’t know. I hadn’t thought about doing that much.”

“John, we have six more days. We can practice it, we can rework it, we can really spice it up and make sure it’s fantastic!  What do you think?” That’s when he blurted, “Here’s what I think- I think you are more excited about my presentation than am!”

“No offense, James, but I’m not very interested in putting too much time into this. I already pretty much have my thoughts together and I know what I want to say.”

By now, I was really biting my tongue. I pressed on.

“I know, John, but for this Monday night, why don’t we go for it? Let’s put in some good humor, create a very captivating introduction, and initiate a call to action?”

“I don’t know. I hadn’t thought about doing that much.”

“John, we have six more days. We can practice it, we can rework it, we can really spice it up and make sure it’s fantastic! What do you think?” We laughed about it a bit. Of course, I couldn’t tell him what was riding on it, but he did practice, and he did rehearse, and he did a truly wonderful job on the presentation. As a result, he was promoted to director and is probably now on his way to vice-president. I often wonder if there are not hundreds, even thousands, of stories like John’s. Are you ready to make 2009 the year you become a motivational speaker? Let’s go.

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Be A Motivational Speaker in 2009

January 11th, 2009

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Become a Motivational Speaker

January 10th, 2009
Many people wonder how Tiger Woods got to be the best golfer in the world at 
such a young age.  Perhaps his secret lies partially in a decision he made very early in 
his career to study and learn from the best in his sport.  He chose to learn from both 
those playing against him and those who played before him.  Tiger’s strategy was to pick
fifty golfers, fifty of the greatest, study them and try to 
extract the very best parts of each of their games, and incorporate them into his own. 
His goal was to create one super player…and for all intents and purposes, 
he’s done just that! 
 
In my motivational speaking career, I have tried to do the same to become a motivational speaker.  
This process began about thirty years ago.  I began seriously listening to other motivational speakers by whom I was 
captivated.  I studied what I thought each did exceptionally well, picked out parts of their 
“games,” and incorporated them into my own professional speaking skills.  I strongly urge everyone who is trying to 
take their speaking career to the next level to do the same. Let me give you five examples of my “case studies” and what, in my opinion, each did best: 
 
 
1) Maya Angelou 
 Maya Angelou is a Grammy Award-winning poet, writer, and speaker who is also 
currently a professor at my alma mater, Wake Forest.  (I’m throwing in this plug for my 
Demon Deacons.  Fight on!)  Very few speakers have Maya Angelou’s flair and 
creativity in speaking.  The way that she captures an audience, even in her 
introductions, is just fabulous.  And her mastery of pauses…powerful! Study her 
techniques and your captivating powers will indeed “Rise”!  
2) Charles Spurgeon 
Charles Spurgeon, whom I discussed in the introduction, is my mentor not only in 
the field of passion, but also of humor.  Spurgeon often used levity in his sermons, 
which was very controversial in his time—and to a lesser extent, remains so in churches 
today— because the idea of using the pulpit to make people laugh was considered 
rather sacrilegious.  When Charles was once asked why he used humor, his response 
was, “I wait until I open a man’s mouth wide with laughter, then I pour a dose of truth 
down it.”  This lesson is the basis of all the humor I use in my speeches. 
3)  Martin Luther King, Jr.   
Martin Luther King, Jr.…As I write his name down and gaze at it, I ask myself, “Is 
any explanation necessary?”  He is my hands-down favorite speaker of all time.  His 
soul, his spirit, his song, his use of parallel phraseology was spectacular!  (Unlike any 
before or since his time)  At the end of the nineties, Martin Luther King, Jr. was voted as 
one of the best two speakers of the twentieth century, second only to Churchill.
4) Richard Rogers 
Richard Rogers was a preacher who lived in Lubbock, Texas.  I first heard him 
speak in 1977, and he’s certainly one of the best speakers I’ve ever heard.  There’s no 
doubt that his “best game” is his story-telling prowess.  Absolutely no one, in my 
opinion, could breathe life into a story like Richard.  To this day, my wife, Tanya, 
mentions that she remembers us on our dates riding around in my old VW van.  She 
recalls me listening to her with one ear, but listening to speeches from Richard Rogers 
on a portable cassette recorder held up near my other ear. (You can plainly see what a 
patient and forgiving woman Tanya has been.) I’ve collected and purchased every single audio tape available. 
Now more than 500! Many of them I’ve listened to more than once, and one time joked with Richard that if he ever needed a stand- 
in, I could step up and recite his messages, with his stories included.    
My ability to tell a story was revolutionized by Richard Rogers.  I called Richard 
one time while I was living in Boston, and asked him if I could possibly fly into Lubbock, 
Texas, just to spend some time with him to learn a little bit about how to tell a story.  It 
would have been worthwhile for me to make the trip for one hour of his time. He agreed 
and invited me to his home. I flew in on a Friday and shadowed Richard for much of the weekend.  I 
returned to Boston on Sunday evening with some newly hatched skills for one part of my professional speaking 
that would forever be changed. Tiger had learned from Watson the secrets of putting, and Richard had just 
taught me the secrets of captivating stories! 
 
5)  Winston Churchill 
An interesting dilemma for me is that Churchill is generally not my cup of tea.  
And yet, how can I leave him off of my list of fifty to be studied, when he was voted the 
most powerful orator of the twentieth century?  Here’s a man whose voice was not only 
as necessary as troops and armaments were to the British war effort, but also a man 
who won a Nobel Prize for Literature and his oratory.  So much a “man of the hour” was 
Churchill, that he was the first non-U.S. citizen who was granted honorary citizenship in 
the United States.  In fact, in his honor we have the battleship USS Churchill.  I also 
had to include Churchill on the list of fifty because he’s my “poster-boy” for speech 
preparation.  When once asked why his speeches were so popular and powerful, his 
response set a new standard for masterful preparedness: “As a rule of thumb, I try to spend one hour of work and 
preparation for every one minute of a speech that I give.”
 
These are but five of the speakers from whom I’ve learned.  Tiger Woods knows 
the importance of learning all he can from both those before him and those around him 
to make himself better.  What prevents us from doing that in our speaking careers? Many times it comes down
to just one word….Ego. Take your Speaking Career to the next level in 2009. Stay tuned for my 
Motivational Speakers Training Course and become a motivational speaker in 2009. The doors will open in a few short weeks.

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Professional Speaking is a Rewarding Job

January 9th, 2009
Do you Enjoy your work?
Confucius says: “Choose a job you love, and you will never  have to work a day in your life.” 
I once read an article titled, “Top 4 Reasons to Change Jobs”: 
 1. You dread going to work. 
 2. You live only for the weekends. 
 3. You no longer take pride in your work. 
 4. You’ve lost your sense of humor. 

Not long after reading this article, I was invited as a motivational speaker to speak to a work team of eighty. The director explained to me that they 
had lost seven employees in the past two weeks. She was concerned, and was hoping I could say something to stop 
the exodus. You should have seen her face when, instead,  I read the article! I commented to the crowd that if they did not enjoy their work then maybe it was time
to look elsewhere. She called me three hours later. Frustrated, she told me she had received nine more notices to quit! I explained that these decisions would probably 
benefit her remaining team, her customers, and perhaps even those who had departed. After some thought, she agreed. My friend, do you enjoy your work? Perhaps you 
feel trapped. It may feel like you don’t have choices, but you do! Take action. See if your company is hiring in another department, or perhaps 
start looking for a job someplace else. But please don’t walk around saying, “I want to go home… I don’t want to be here… I’m so glad it’s Friday… The weekend 
was too short…” You deserve better. And so do your co-workers. 

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Servants Become a Motivational Speaker

January 7th, 2009
 Become a Motivational Speaker
– Dr. Albert Schweitzer  wrote a great quote:“I don’t know what your destiny will be,  
but one thing I do know…The ones amongst you  
who are really happy are those who have sought  
and found how to serve.”  As Motivational speakers we’re determined to be grateful, here’s a fantastic 
way to show it: Be a servant in your public speaking jobs. That may mean something as 
simple as getting your spouse a cup of coffee or buying your 
co-worker a Coke. Don’t ask “How much will this inconve- 
nience me?” Instead, ask “How important is it to them?” 
One of my friends was having marriage difficulties.  
Separation seemed imminent. I asked,  
“What do you want from your marriage?” 
He replied, “I want to make it work.  
What do you suggest I do?” 
I offered this most important question:  
“What is the one thing you could do tonight  
that would absolutely shock her with glee?” 
Without even a blink, he chimed,  
“Oh, probably cleaning the toilets.” 
“Well, there it is, my friend. There’s the solution.” 
With a disgruntled look, he complained,  
“What do you think I am – a servant?” 
I mused, “Now you’re getting it.” 
He did not clean that toilet. 
“It just didn’t ring true for me,” he later told me. 
By the way, they’re now divorced. 
Perhaps there is no nobler position. Be a servant and you’ll become a motivational speaker in high demand.. 

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Become a Motivational Speaker

January 7th, 2009

Most professional speakers are painfully aware of the important role self-confidence plays in competent motivational speaking.  What is rarely understood, though, is the role the subconscious plays in the development of motivational speaker’s confidence. 

To be a Motivational Speaker Get to Know the Power of the Subconscious

If this blog sparks some curiosity or passion within your motivational speaking career, you may intuitively understand the potential power you possess right now. Is this an Overstatement?  I don’t think so.  Consider a few of the empowering thoughts found in my favorite book on the subconscious, Hidden Power: How to Unleash the Power of Your Subconscious Mind, by James K. Van Fleet: 

  …[Your subconscious] is a source of energy stronger than electricity, more powerful than high speed explosives.  Your subconscious mind is unlimited, infinite, and inexhaustible.  It never rests, for it keeps right on working for you even when you are asleep…  …Of all the creatures on this earth, man is the only one who does not need to depend upon past experience to control his future.  Another way of saying this is that man is the only one of God’s creations who is allowed to finish the act of Creation himself…   …Your subconscious mind will react automatically to give you whatever you program into it, either real or imagined…  …It is important to point out to you here that your subconscious mind will not take the trouble to work for you if you do not believe init.  Next, it is also highly important that in transmitting your message to your subconscious mind, you should do so in the spirit that the work has already been done. 

Let’s apply these concepts to motivational speaking. To maximize your abilities, you must not just hope that one day you will be a better speaker, but already believe that you’re a good speaker. This is the key! The vast majority of people I train and coach do not think this way.  They come in with the belief that they’re not very good speakers and are just hoping for some improvement.  Of course, this belief is the opposite of what is needed to activate your subconscious mind to produce positive results. As-if principle:  If you want a quality, act as if you already had it. –William James 

Evidently, when you say, “I’m a good speaker,” subconsciously, your mind makes that a reality.  The same is true with the statement, “I am funny.” Talk about supercharging your act and your brain.  For one thing, you let yourself know you can.  So you feel like, boy, I am talented and I am funny.  You can also set your subconscious to think funny.  You’ll think of extra jokes all during the day, once you get going. – Comedian Drew Carey Believe you can, and you can.  Thinking you’re a good speaker is the most fundamental step to being a good speaker.  I find this incredibly uplifting.  Built-in blazing self-confidence.  The power resides in our own minds.  We control our destinies.  We canreprogram our subconscious minds.  What more could we ask for?  Just give yourselves a little motivational speaking pep talk before you speak saying: “I’m on fire. Watch me burn!”   

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End of 2008 Thoughts

January 1st, 2009
George Bernard Shaw once wrote these words:
“ I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community… 
as long as I live, it is my privilege to do for it whatever I can.  
I want to be thoroughly used up when I die. For the harder I 
work, the more I live. I rejoice in life, for its own sake. Life is no 
brief candle to me; it is a splendid torch, which I’ve got hold of for 
the moment. And I want to make it burn as brightly as possible, 
before handing it on to future generations.” I hope that quote inspires you as much as it does me.
It is a great thought to end out a great year on. With so much war and economic turbulence this
past year many are not as hopeful in their outlook for 2009. Remember it is about the journey that makes your life
full not the arrival at the destination. Some journey’s are as easy as driving to the mall from suburbia. 
Other journeys are much wilder like being on an African safari.
Throughout my life, I’ve had the privilege of getting up on 
stages all over the planet and being able to inspire people, helping 
them find motivation and inspiration in their professional 
and personal lives. I’ve been honored to share 
hopes, fears, strategies, laughter, and warmth with them, 
my family, and close friends. I have been blessed to 
learn from so many of them all.  I’ve gained a some insight 
– and a lot of fun – along the way. 
I would never boast to be the world’s expert on being inspirational or passionate as a motivational speaker.  
I have been but one man who has noticed countless, amazing qualities in other people, and then compiled 
them for the benefit of my audiences. May you continue to drink in all the goodness of God and give that back
to others in that God given calling in 2009!

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Sleep for your Motivational Speaking Career

December 25th, 2008
I’ve heard it said that sleep depravation makes coward of us all. As motivational speakers we need to be sharp and fresh to be
our creative best. 
“Take rest. A field that has rested gives a bountiful crop.” 
– Ovid 
How much sleep are you getting? Sleep deprivation is a curse to creativity and a thief to passion. 
“Without enough sleep, we all become tall two-year-olds.” 
– JoJo Jensen 
I once belonged to a church where it seemed that the more dedicated one was to Christ, the less he should sleep. Mem- 
bers would boast of their late nights and early mornings. Leaders wore their fatigue like a badge of honor. Come to 
think of it, we did have our share of tall two-year-olds. I was one of them. Take the sleep test. According to Harvard University  
Economics Professor Juliet Schor, “If you need an alarm clock to wake you in the morning, you’re probably sleeping 
too little.” I get up most mornings without an alarm clock. The solution is simple – earlier to bed! Now of course there’s a tradeoff, 
but it’s well worth it. I rarely enjoy Leno’s or Letterman’s monologue, or catch the late movie, but throughout the  
next day – I’m ready to burn! I’ve kept this tip brief so all of us could get some extra rest in over the holidays

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Great Motivational Quotes to End 2008 With

December 24th, 2008
These are some of my favorite motivational speaking quotes I’ve collected through the years.
I hope you’ll find them as motivating as I do.
“The real measure of your wealth is how much  
you’d be worth if you lost all your money.” 
– Bernard Meltzer 
“The only way of discovering the limits of the possible is to  
venture a little way past them into the impossible.” 
– Arthur C. Clarke 

“A childlike man is not a man whose development  
has been arrested; on the contrary, he is a man who  
has given himself a chance of continuing to develop  
long after most adults have muffled themselves  
in the cocoon of middle-aged habit and convention.” 
– Aldous Huxley 

“He is a man of sense who does not grieve for what he has not, 
but rejoices in what he has.” 
– Epictetus 
“Become the change you wish to see in others.”                                                                                           
– Mahatma Gandhi       
                                                                                                                                            
“Nothing happens unless first a dream.” 
– Carl Sandburg 

“There are two days that no one should ever worry about:  
yesterday and tomorrow.” 
– Albert Einstein 

“Angels sail through our lives like ships of light,  
visiting us through portals to our heart.” 
– Karen Goldman  
“There are many ways to measure success; not the least of which is 
the way your child describes you when talking to a friend.” 
– Author unknown 
“Every man’s work, whether it be literature or music or pictures 
or architecture or anything else, is always a portrait of himself.” 
– Samuel Butler 

“Much may be known of a man’s character  
by what excites his laughter.” 
– Goethe 

“The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains.  
The superior teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires.”   
– William A. Ward 

“Some people say they haven’t yet found themselves.  
But the self is not something one finds;  
it is something one creates.”  
– Thomas Szasz 

“Our lives begin to end the day we become silent  
about things that matter.” 
– Martin Luther King, Jr. 

“I would rather be ashes than dust! I would rather that my spark 
should burn out in a brilliant blaze than it should be stifled by 
dry rot. I would rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me 
in magnificent glow, than a sleepy and permanent planet. The 
proper function of man is to live, not to exist. I shall not waste 
my days in trying to prolong them. I shall use my time.” 
– Jack London 

“Of all earthly music that which reaches farthest  
into heaven is the beating of a truly loving heart.” 
– Henry Ward Beecher 

“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational  
mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that  
honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.”  
– Albert Einstein 

“Seek out that particular mental attribute which makes  
you feel most deeply and vitally alive, along with which  
comes the inner voice which says, ‘This is the real me,’ and  
when you have found that attitude, follow it.” 
– William James 

“Love one another, and you’ll be happy.  
It’s as simple – and as difficult – as that.” 
– Michael Leunig 

“This nation was built by men who took risks;  
pioneers who were not afraid of the wilderness,  
business men who were not afraid of failure, scientists  
who were not afraid of the truth, thinkers who were not afraid 
of progress, dreamers who were not afraid of action.” 
– Brooks Atkinson 

“None are so old as those who have outlived enthusiasm.” 
– Henry David Thoreau 

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